Summertime in youth ministry is my favorite time of the year. Summertime is crazy busy but totally rewarding and so much fun! In just a couple days we leave for Biola University with 130 high school students and 20 leaders for a Christ In Youth Conference (CIY) which will be attended by thousands of other high schoolers. This is going to be an awesome week and I hope that you will join me in praying for all the students and that they will be open to being changed by God.
We will return from CIY with just one day before leaving for Amplify-Junior High Summer Camp in Tahoe. We are taking about 80 junior high students to summer camp and pray that they will be changed as well and excited to show their community the love of Christ when they return home.
I always look forward to these camps and conferences as our students walk away challenged, changed and refreshed in Christ. I look forward to writing again in a couple weeks to update you on all the exciting happenings from camp!
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Saturday, June 13, 2009
Why I'm a junior high leader...
As the school year comes to an end my junior high small group is taking a break for the summer. My wonderful girls decided to have me over for an end-of-the-year dinner party. Each girl was responsible for a different part of the meal and when I arrived they were great hosts. The table was decorated with candles and flowers and name tags for where each of us was to sit. The girls brought their parts of the meal out-salad, bread sticks, spaghetti and soda, we prayed and they insisted that as the guest of honor I make my plate first. The food was delicious and we had some fun conversations. After dinner we had round one of desert and then the girls decided to play dress up. They found some old Halloween costumes and each girl dressed up as a princess and then of course we had to walk around the neighborhood...a sort of princess parade. The girls were cracking me up as they walked around "looking for their prince charming"...let me tell ya, the way they were singing would have sent anybody in their path running :-) After our walk we returned to the house and the girls proceeded to entertain me with dance performances and their own renditions of current songs.
One of the best parts of the night was just getting to watch the girls and how they interacted with each other. They each wrote me a note that touched me deeply and the whole night made me feel very honored to be a part of their lives.
There are times during small group where I wonder if they are getting it and wonder if they ever will and of course times when all I can do is laugh-like when one of the girls asks how to cure cavities when all the other girls are asking serious questions about Christ, or when one of the girls spits root beer float all over your face because someone made her laugh, or when one causes your toilet to overflow all over the bathroom and stares at it screaming instead of grabbing a towel-I love every moment of being their leader and really feel honored to be their junior high leader.
One of the best parts of the night was just getting to watch the girls and how they interacted with each other. They each wrote me a note that touched me deeply and the whole night made me feel very honored to be a part of their lives.
There are times during small group where I wonder if they are getting it and wonder if they ever will and of course times when all I can do is laugh-like when one of the girls asks how to cure cavities when all the other girls are asking serious questions about Christ, or when one of the girls spits root beer float all over your face because someone made her laugh, or when one causes your toilet to overflow all over the bathroom and stares at it screaming instead of grabbing a towel-I love every moment of being their leader and really feel honored to be their junior high leader.
Sunday, May 31, 2009
If only...then maybe
If only you knew that we spend our vacation thinking of ways to improve the youth group then maybe you would be slower to judge our decisions.
If only you knew how many hours we put into the youth ministry then maybe you would be less likely to tell us to add another event to benefit you.
If only you took a few minutes to ask the vision and purpose of the group then maybe you would understand the meaning behind our decisions.
If only you knew how much we truly care for each student then maybe you would understand that it breaks our hearts when we hear students are partying...and if only you knew how much we try to keep them on a healthy path then maybe you would be slower to put the blame on us when it does happen.
If only you would offer to host an event at your house or sponsor an event then maybe we could put some of your ideas on the calendar.
If only you encouraged/made your child attend youth group then maybe they would know what events are going on.
If only you were a parent to your child rather than a friend then maybe they would not go out and drink.
If only you volunteered in the youth ministry then maybe you could help "those" kids...you know, the ones who go out and drink...not yours, "those".
If only you spent some quality time with God then maybe your child would too.
If only you knew that youth ministry is more of a way of life than it is a job then maybe you would be less critical and choose your words more carefully.
If only...
If only you knew how many hours we put into the youth ministry then maybe you would be less likely to tell us to add another event to benefit you.
If only you took a few minutes to ask the vision and purpose of the group then maybe you would understand the meaning behind our decisions.
If only you knew how much we truly care for each student then maybe you would understand that it breaks our hearts when we hear students are partying...and if only you knew how much we try to keep them on a healthy path then maybe you would be slower to put the blame on us when it does happen.
If only you would offer to host an event at your house or sponsor an event then maybe we could put some of your ideas on the calendar.
If only you encouraged/made your child attend youth group then maybe they would know what events are going on.
If only you were a parent to your child rather than a friend then maybe they would not go out and drink.
If only you volunteered in the youth ministry then maybe you could help "those" kids...you know, the ones who go out and drink...not yours, "those".
If only you spent some quality time with God then maybe your child would too.
If only you knew that youth ministry is more of a way of life than it is a job then maybe you would be less critical and choose your words more carefully.
If only...
One more No-No
"Are you tired?"..."No, oh, you look tired"
Oh, gee, thanks for that boost of confidence!! Really, does anyone want to know when they look tired?? Let's just leave this question out of our conversations...uh, how about forever!
Oh, gee, thanks for that boost of confidence!! Really, does anyone want to know when they look tired?? Let's just leave this question out of our conversations...uh, how about forever!
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Conversation "no-nos"
Being a pastors wife I have come to notice that some people think they know you a lot better than they actually do. This probably happens because they see my husband on stage and see us around the church...being part of a large church most people know us but we do not know them. And this happens...people think they are pretty close to us when in reality we barely know who they are...which leads them to making comments or asking questions they really shouldn't. In the past few weeks this has become very clear to me through some of the questions and statements that have been directed at me. So, I thought I would do a service to everyone and remind you of a few questions/statements you don't say to people...especially women.
When waiting to get food at a self-serve BBQ don't say "Oh, (insert name here) just got her food, is there any left?"
When saying good-bye to someone at the same BBQ don't say, "I'll see you at the gym working this BBQ off".
When seeing someone make up their plate at a self-serve dinner don't ask, "Is that all for you?"
And, the one I thought everyone knew..."Are you pregnant?" Really, no matter how close you think you are to someone, don't ask this question! Here's a hint...if you are "that close" she will tell you if she is pregnant...you won't have to ask!
When waiting to get food at a self-serve BBQ don't say "Oh, (insert name here) just got her food, is there any left?"
When saying good-bye to someone at the same BBQ don't say, "I'll see you at the gym working this BBQ off".
When seeing someone make up their plate at a self-serve dinner don't ask, "Is that all for you?"
And, the one I thought everyone knew..."Are you pregnant?" Really, no matter how close you think you are to someone, don't ask this question! Here's a hint...if you are "that close" she will tell you if she is pregnant...you won't have to ask!
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
NOLA
Okay, so clearly I have been slacking on posting about our New Orleans trip. I have decided to just post some highlights instead of posting about every day...because I can't exactly remember what happened on which day now :-)
Some highlights from playing with the kids in the projects:
A little girl was asking us where we were from and when a team member answered "California" she responded with, "Oh, is that where all white people come from??"
On the first day we arrived to the projects one little girl, about 10 years old, spotted one of our male team members and was determined to make him her best friend. The little girl played with our team member all day and eagerly awaited his arrival on the second day. When we finally arrived on the second day she presented letters, poems and pictures to our team member. We teased him about his new girl friend but were really touched when he read her letter and it stated that no one ever played with her because she was the fat, ugly girl. Our team member was committed to making sure she got all the attention she deserved and it was wonderful. They even went on a picnic together in the projects.
Some highlights from demolition:
We got to demolition a whole apartment complex rather than a house.
The apartment complex owner also owned a doughnut shop so we got free doughnuts in the morning!
Our work on the apartment complex will not only give homes back to families but will also give a means of income back to a family.
Street Ministry Highlight:
We met a husband and wife that survived Hurricane Katrina. When the hurricane hit and the water rose in New Orleans he swam 2 miles with his wife on his back. They left their house with only his wallet, which the wife held in her mouth, and a Bible.
Random Highlights:
Jenna almost beat everyone during a Speed Tournament..after she pretended she had never played before.
We went to a swamp area and got to see alligators and it was sweet!
Matt and some other guys from the team saw a brutal beating and called the cops while in hot pursuit of the suspects.
The upstairs toilet overflowed and leaked through the ceiling of the first floor and Matt just happened to be standing under it...and this happens...Matt gets peed on during a game of Mafia.
Mission Trip Flexibility Moment:
We planned on going to church one night...and had even prepared...we were dressed and ready to go when our YWAM leader showed up to tell us the church service was the night before. Oh, by the way, this is after he checked the website earlier that day to see what time the service was at!
Some highlights from playing with the kids in the projects:
A little girl was asking us where we were from and when a team member answered "California" she responded with, "Oh, is that where all white people come from??"
On the first day we arrived to the projects one little girl, about 10 years old, spotted one of our male team members and was determined to make him her best friend. The little girl played with our team member all day and eagerly awaited his arrival on the second day. When we finally arrived on the second day she presented letters, poems and pictures to our team member. We teased him about his new girl friend but were really touched when he read her letter and it stated that no one ever played with her because she was the fat, ugly girl. Our team member was committed to making sure she got all the attention she deserved and it was wonderful. They even went on a picnic together in the projects.
Some highlights from demolition:
We got to demolition a whole apartment complex rather than a house.
The apartment complex owner also owned a doughnut shop so we got free doughnuts in the morning!
Our work on the apartment complex will not only give homes back to families but will also give a means of income back to a family.
Street Ministry Highlight:
We met a husband and wife that survived Hurricane Katrina. When the hurricane hit and the water rose in New Orleans he swam 2 miles with his wife on his back. They left their house with only his wallet, which the wife held in her mouth, and a Bible.
Random Highlights:
Jenna almost beat everyone during a Speed Tournament..after she pretended she had never played before.
We went to a swamp area and got to see alligators and it was sweet!
Matt and some other guys from the team saw a brutal beating and called the cops while in hot pursuit of the suspects.
The upstairs toilet overflowed and leaked through the ceiling of the first floor and Matt just happened to be standing under it...and this happens...Matt gets peed on during a game of Mafia.
Mission Trip Flexibility Moment:
We planned on going to church one night...and had even prepared...we were dressed and ready to go when our YWAM leader showed up to tell us the church service was the night before. Oh, by the way, this is after he checked the website earlier that day to see what time the service was at!
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Day 1: Part 2
...Off to Wal-Mart...and this happens....
Grocery shopping for 35 people for one week is no small task. Luckily, Super Wal-Mart has everything one might need...that is everything except customer service. I put together a team of about 10 people to tackle the shopping list and off we go. We actually knock out the shopping list in about an hour which really is great time but then comes time for check out. We line up our five over-flowing carts of food and call back to the house to tell them we are almost finished with the shopping and to save some pizza for us. Little did we realize that check-out at Super Wal-Mart is not so super. Our less than enthused cashier begins scanning and bagging our items...one by one. And by one by one, I mean one item at a time and one item per bag. As you can imagine this takes an extremely long time...in fact it takes longer than the actual shopping did. The cashier is pretty impressed with the amount of food we bought and seems excited to tell us about milk prices and that they too have the "Happy Cow" commercials and the cows are from California...if only she showed that much excitement while she was still scanning and bagging our items. Multi-tasking apparently is not a skill impressed upon in the south...
Highlight of the shopping trip:
At one point I need to ask someone where an item might be located. I approach the lady and say "excuse me" when she responds with "I'm listening" without ever looking up from her task....so much for friendly customer service!
If you are ever looking for a great cross-cultural experience I highly recommend going to a Super Wal-Mart in the South.
Grocery shopping for 35 people for one week is no small task. Luckily, Super Wal-Mart has everything one might need...that is everything except customer service. I put together a team of about 10 people to tackle the shopping list and off we go. We actually knock out the shopping list in about an hour which really is great time but then comes time for check out. We line up our five over-flowing carts of food and call back to the house to tell them we are almost finished with the shopping and to save some pizza for us. Little did we realize that check-out at Super Wal-Mart is not so super. Our less than enthused cashier begins scanning and bagging our items...one by one. And by one by one, I mean one item at a time and one item per bag. As you can imagine this takes an extremely long time...in fact it takes longer than the actual shopping did. The cashier is pretty impressed with the amount of food we bought and seems excited to tell us about milk prices and that they too have the "Happy Cow" commercials and the cows are from California...if only she showed that much excitement while she was still scanning and bagging our items. Multi-tasking apparently is not a skill impressed upon in the south...
Highlight of the shopping trip:
At one point I need to ask someone where an item might be located. I approach the lady and say "excuse me" when she responds with "I'm listening" without ever looking up from her task....so much for friendly customer service!
If you are ever looking for a great cross-cultural experience I highly recommend going to a Super Wal-Mart in the South.
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